After a good day or so of being pissed off at the world, we've come up with a plan. Since our track record isn't great with this batch of embryos, we'll transfer the rest of them as soon as possible. If all four thaw well and stick, we'll just deal with it if it happens. (hahahahaha... like any will actually stick!)
We want to give those four a chance, but I am obviously not expecting great results. I just want to do this as quickly as possible and then move on to another fresh cycle. It makes sense for both our personal timing (a baby in summer works well with my husband's teaching schedule) and tax reasons to do as much as possible as soon as possible. We'll figure out the financial aspect later. Fortunately, we've received a very generous offer to help with the next FET. For the fresh cycle, if I need to find a new job that has IVF coverage, I will. I've even been looking into states with mandated coverage - it wouldn't take much arm twisting to move to Hawaii. If only they had lots of jobs and a low cost of living!
We're not giving up - not even close.
